So i have quit diablo 2, but decided to waste my time on ladder slasher.

1) I have gone with max str fighter (seems the easiest)

I want to know what stats I am looking for on my weapons. and armor and charms

str
dex
ee
armor piece?
life leech?
etc etc etc

get to 90dex and rest str as build

ee for weapon
str/dex for charms and armor

I'd suggest getting EE on your armor as well (scale or chain preferably) so you are a better tank in Catacombs, and can solo much easier.