j/w wut stats to put into

Depends what weapon you'll be using. I personally like axes on barbs, and go all str to keep a high consitent damage.
You want to look for ee on your wep/ armor, and str on your charm.

if u go club u shud go 100-115 dex rest into str

with ee wep / ee armor if u wanna be front n tank in catacombs but u mite want 1 when u solo / str/dex charm of ur choice

sword: 115-125 dex then rest into str n ee armor if u wanna be front n tank in catacombs but u mite want 1 when u solo / str/dex charm of ur choice