changed from guradian to rogue lol

are you going for a melee rogue, caster rouge or hyrbid rogue?

i'd like to know a decent build for a hybrid rogue myself

For a hybrid rogue. You get your intelligence up to 70. Once this is completed you then either add the rest of your stats into strength or dex just depending on the stats of your gear.

Do you have gear or would you like to know what to look for?

i have random crap gear that adds a little to dex... i don't really know what to look for eq wise

For wpns look for enhanced effect. Good 2nd mods will be things such as heal mastery/max mana/ mana per kill/ mana per attack
For armors- look for stats such as dex/strength. Good 2nd mods heal mastery/max mana/ mana per kill/ mana per attack
For charms look for stats such as dex/strength. Good 2nd mods heal mastery/max mana/ mana per kill/ mana per attack

You will also need to look for heal charms with enhanced effect.

The gear can get very expensive and pretty hard to find just giving you a heads up. LMK if you have any other questions.