or should i pump some into life/dex aswell?

I suggest getting 110-120 dex at 55 with your gear on, rest of your stats goes into strength. Dont put any into vit(life)

not sure really what you mean by that like do i add into dex till im 55 then drain into stre or save my stats till im 55 and start adding?

pump stats into dex. When you hit lvl 55 you would need about 110-120 dex with your gear on.

I dont know what stats are on your gear so couldnt tell you how much you need to accomplish this. once you have dex then pump the rest into strength. That a little clearer? If not lmk

yea thats clearer and i have shitty gear for the time being hoping to get better at this game tho

also whats the best weapon in your guys opinion for a fighter long sword? or axe?