If you want to tank, you will want an armor with ee instead of stats- ee/ stats if you can afford it.
Armor: Plate with ee, or ee/ stats
Weapon: I like axes on a barb for the consistent damage. But you can use a club, sword if you want for the higher crits.
Charm: Strength or dex, if you chose another type of weapon.
*If you do use something other than a axe, keep your stats balanced: Ie: 90 - 120 dex/ 1xx str
And you receive the stats from the first charm, not the second.
I would go your first 10 points into vita, and more if you'd like more life along the way.
And the rest of the points into str.
Ladder slasher begginers guide:
http://forums.d2jsp.org/index.php?showtopic=24496799&f=74Simple barbarian guide:
http://forums.d2jsp.org/index.php?showtopic=28895083&f=74