how should i add stats and what pump first or dex/int same time??

from what i've read, you don't need to pump str/dex at all if you're going to cast later on. i suppose it just depends on when you'll start casting. since you're playing on SC, you can probably just put everything into into, maybe the first 5 into vita for high lvl wells.

hmmm i used bad word i meant rahter healer i wanna be just more useful in group

the same logic still applies.. you're going to be casting, not meleeing