Just copying what I heard, if someone would vouch or deny this, please do.
Put your first 10 stat points in vitality so you may reach 60 vita, since the hp you gain with each level is dependant on your vitality stat you want the 60 vitality you need in total as soon as possible.
Then pump dex untill you have it 20 points higher than your strength skill, then keep pumping both but keep the dex 20 points higher than the strength, do not ask me why.
When you reach 120 dex, you can go all out on the strength stat, and that was kinda all.
I hope I was of help to ya. =]