i need to know what to put my stats into! im confused.. do i need more str or more dex...

..as I always say a matter of preference.

But imo 100-120 dex

Rest str.

Unless your into the pure str build thing. Some people do do that.

I'd also consider those first 10 free points into vita if you intend to solo.

I vote for all in str and buy gear dex for hit 120 dex

Some guides here http://forums.d2jsp.org/index.php?showtopic=22760522&f=74

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