whats the fastest way to get exp?

depend on your gear

poor - cata
rich - solo

im poor and lvl 5 ^^

you should join maze catacombs if you see any games up

there is never games up for low lvls -.-'

you can reach lvl 10 easilly spending only few fg buy ee wepon lvl 5 ~ 40ee , armor and charm with 3+ lpa and you will go no regen almost until lvl 10
probably you will find more games at higher lvls and i say that because on softcore are more players/parties then hardcore