on the lower level's you might wanna stick with mostly hp on attack and hp per kill
when you get higher level start using life steal
str/dex/ee useful for your armor / weapon
with the charm just str/dex since you wont be attacking with the charm
personally i would try and avoid "Glancing Blow" though
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Gives a % chance that a melee attack received will occur at the minimum value of the weapons range.