lvl 26 i need stats like str/dex/intell ect.. give me some of what yougot please

personally wouldnt use less then 125dex(with gear on) on any melee build

weapon = higher the ee the better i try to get a new one every 10 levels for long term planning use swords

Armor = either a high ee plate mail or 30+str or dex

Charm = 30+str or dex (keeping in mind the goal of 125 dex and bonus mods like life steal/life per kill/ life per attack are nice)

all stats after 125 dex is reached = str

damm i lvl 26 and i have like 40 dex and 75 life and 50 str where do i find this gear to make me better

Most of it is luck with drops. Or you can try to transmute items or even well items. Worst comes to worst you can buy them although that might cost you a bit. In the end it all comes down to either having luck or money