try this its a mix of inputting stats but hey it helps for me
the goal of any melee chars are 120-130dex, how to get to 120dex? easy i use this to guide me, str in the beginning to guide u toward the low lvls with decent dmg while dex in mid to boost the crit, while building to max ur dmg with str in the end
initiative points (+10): 5vit/5dex <- 5vit will give u plenty of life i say nearly 4k life @ lvl 71
1-31: all str
32-55: all dex
55+: all str
gears: weapon the higher ee the better (axes are best for barbs because with the dex u have u can crit pretty high, not saying swords/clubs arent better but axes gives consistent hits with a powerful crit @ 120dex+) [also if u want fast lvls i recommend the catacombs while equipping a sword so people wont be talking smack about ur dmg]
armor: +str (30+ recmmended) ( u can do the other way around like str charm/ dex armor)
charm: +dex (30+ recommended)