Iso answers

It depends, what are you aiming, rogue melee or rogue caster?

if its caster go all inteligence...

if its melee... put stats to have 120dex with gear on and rest in strg..

the goal of any melee chars are 120-130dex, how to get to 120dex? easy i use this to guide me, str in the beginning to guide u toward the low lvls with decent dmg while dex in mid to boost the crit, while building to max ur dmg with str in the end

initiative points (+10): 5vit/5dex

1-31: all str

32-55: all dex

55+: all str

gears: weapon the higher ee the better
armor: +str (30+ recmmended)
charm: +dex (30+ recommended)

this may help