I understand the inscribe, purge, transfuse but what do you do when its like ????!?!?
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as far as i know its just u have to chance it in other words guess... but i dont know for sure i dont glyph and only tried it a few times... so if im wrong plz someone let me know.

That is correct.
When you see !!??!!, that means you're not good enough to 'see' what needs to be done.
Just pick one of the three and hope you chose correctly - you have a 1/3 chance to get it right.

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