most melee char are simple:
weapon= the more ee the better (if u are out of fg, aim for the charm/armor first so even with a crappy weapon @ the lvl u are at, it'll boost up ur dmg)
armor = if ur going a str build buy dex for more crit but if u still want dmg buy a +str armor (str if prefer for low lvls)
charm = just like the armor str for dmg and dex for crit (str is prefer for low lvls)