Whats wrong ppl?! Everyone offline!?! its because Hugo Chaves is dead?! hahahaha

a lot of people are having issues loading jsp today

hmmm thats bad news... i saw 24 ppl on US softcore trade... theres allways 250+..

http://eu.battle.net/d3/pl/profile/maron5-2559/hero/1730699

can y help me what i must upgrade next?

Ur char is well geared. If u got gold to spend, this is what u should go for, in order:

Mempo with crit OR a better CC inas;
Natalia ring with CC OR cd and avg dmg;
Natalia boots with 230+ dex and 50+ vita;
Innas pants with 9ias and more stats.

I am running a fists of thunder monk with won khim lau, and I plan on buying a better soj. Will % to lightning damage boost me more than % to any other damage, and should I look for bonus % to fists of thunder or bonus % to sweeping wind (using cyclone)?

Nope. The % dmg is added to ur total damage, like the 5~6% wkl dmg. The damage that adds to ur skill its like the 15~25% damage on wkl, that says "add to light SKILLS". Imo u should get an 30% elites, any 6%dmg and FoT skill bonus.

I'll try this once again: What do you think I should upgrade on my monk? I am mainly exp grinding/farming in mp4. any advice at all would be very helpfull!

http://eu.battle.net/d3/en/profile/BloomTwig-2347/hero/5011980

Nats boots and rings. witching hour. better inna pants.

Consider getting zunima boots, they are quite cheap. just lookg for dex/vit/singleres ones, they will boost your damage a lot.
get new gloves with more dex and an amulet with more dex and more cd.
get a better inna's belt, they are not too expensive.

also keep crafting shoulders and bracers, there's still lots to improve.