So someone I know invited me to have dinner with her so I accepted the invitation, and I asked if she wants to work out with me first before we go eat (said yes). Do you guys know what kind of conversation I should strike with her? (she's trying to get into fitness) I don't want awkward silences and such, can you bros in relationships give me tips.

This post was edited by gojjang on Dec 21 2016 09:36am

when i would go on tinder dates i usually always managed to keep the conversation going.

have some topics pre thought of before you hangout, its usually really easy and if shes into you and not shy she'll keep the convo going.

ask her about her

family
school / job
travelling
goals
hobbies


i sometimes had to stretch out things and ask like silly questions like whats the biggest amount of trouble youve ever been in, or have you ever done this (etc)


you can usually keep the above questions going for hours if you're good at it and she's a talker too.
you can go into detail on each

family

i have a brother
oh whats your brother do? how old is he?

if she asks return questions which most girls usually do, itll keep going for ever
just takes a little practice.


if you track your lifts, right the above down at the back or something and flip to it quickly if you forget.


i used to love tinder dates not because of the girls mostly because it gave me a chance to work on my conversing and confidence.

^ have ideas for the conversation thought out beforehand.

seems awkward but it's saved me many times when it has gotten a bit awkward due to nerves on the first date. you don't need to use them obviously. if it's going fine then go with the flow. it's when you get stuck that you'd use them.

This post was edited by hoipolloi on Dec 21 2016 12:11pm

have fun not being productive.

Meathead doesn't know the difference between right and write.

Just grunt and express alphaness in the gym while sweating profusely, girls love that shit!

dumb ass idea asking to go to gym first imo for a buncha reasons

holy fking looooooool

Oh just writing down my sets


Has list of questions hahah

This post was edited by wesley123 on Dec 21 2016 07:56pm

thanks for the advice tear! We worked out and she kept up, talked for 3 hours non stop at chipotle. working out again with her soon.

Lmao that was brutal I'll admit it
I wasn't paying attention and leaving for gym class with the kids 😂