Doing some late night studying and a thought came to me.

If you found out that your boyfriend / girlfriend already has kids, would you be able to continue with the relationship? Potentially even going through marriage?

Really interested in what the masses has to say about this.

How are you in a relationship with someone and you just find out that they have kids?

It's definitely not ideal as I've always wanted the whole family of my own thing, but if she is an amazing person then I might consider it.

She keeping her secret from you for fear of such a knowledge might ruin what she has with you? Kinda obvious how one might get into such a situation brah

This is actually a very monumental question man. You have to take into consideration if you are able to tolerate another man's seedlings. How are you going to support 4 kids potentially..., what do you tell your real kids about the other kids?
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This post was edited by TempoONE on Sep 18 2016 10:28pm

No

Couple of cucks reported ITT

It depends are your feelings for her are strong enough for you to put the hate for the spawns of satan away?

idc if her kids are in their 10th trimester, would ask her to abort

Idc if her kids are 10 years old they will be gone leaving room for my own. Abortion, adoption, give to the ex or sell on the black market

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I love kids so I'd be ok with it but I would go in with intentions of making my own as well