so my ex works with my sister.

sister has come to her attention of almost being fired for hostility towards my sister. My ex has seniority over my sister.



Now I can try and and reach out to my ex who no longer picks up my phone calls and answers my texts, by going to their workplace and asking for the boss's time for a few words to try and reach out and mediate the break up, which I do not see as a very good thing to do in my opinion.


Second is the write what i want to say in a note, which she will probably throw away before reading it.


lastly I have no conclusion, I texted my ex and called tonight with no response as usual, the second phone call was a direct hang-up to voicemail.


My sister may be fired tomorrow for my ex complaining That i tried to reach out to her tonight. I will then be charged for my sister losing job and be a sore eye to the family and my sister, because my ex refuses to talk to me.



Now, our break up had so much that was not said before the break up. It was premature, and perhaps she also loved me. The initial reason was so she could find happiness because I didnt see it with me. So, Her hating on my sister at work, when she deems herself a professional at work and never to take personal matters into her work. Well that is all out the door, since she is taking it out on my sister. So, even though it sounds wrong....I was thinking of going to see the their boss (the dentist) and sitting down with him and explaining the situation and apologizing for my behavior and the outcome of effecting his coworkers of his workplace. Perhaps, maybe even having him mediate me and my ex talking since she views him as a role model.

I dont know bros this is pretty serious problem with ex, who i did love by the way. Still havnt found

yeah i definitely think you should ask the dentist to mediate your/your ex's conversation as if he's not a dentist, but rather a counselor of some sort

do you even think before you type or do you just mash keys until you think it's enough and then hit create thread ?

I stop typing when I think my thoughts are well put.

Damnit Josiah we all know you're pulling dimes on the regular, don't settle for this Fuk boy ex trash bruh.. She prolly looks like an albino Avacado nah say'n

If she fires your sister, she probably has a case to sue your ex.

One can't just fire someone for bullshit reasons. Tbh you are only making matters worse at this point by trying to contact her more.

wrongful termination/dismissal case if it comes down to it.

This post was edited by MrBobMarley on Oct 29 2014 07:06am

well today is the last time i will probably see her. Im not allowed in the workplace anymore from my sisters rules =P


oh and i dont even care that my sister might have taken the letter away from her boss's desk before he even read it. It is out of my control, I was not there to physically give it to him. If fate has my sister doing that, and I dont care enough to make another letter and give to him personally. I am just going to go with my ex hating me and just never bring her up anymore, as much as I loved her ya know it sucks having her hate me like this. It is out of my power oh well.


Onto more news, Im going to go back with that phillipina single mom, cus I like the way we are together.

For fucks sake...

Lol

If I were the dentist I would never want to see you. I'd want your sister and ex to patch things up and would probably fire at least one of them if the problem ever came to my attention.

If your sister is doing anything to instigate tell her to stop. They're adult humans who should be able to get along.

You better hope their boss is a man.

Only he would understand, if its a female, yeah, you're fuckt