Quote (Armani_Code @ May 31 2011 06:48pm)
Sup Raynor - Not really your expertise per say but wanted another opinion involving happiness or lack there of.
Funny thing is, my life from a paper standpoint is great.
Family is wealthy, grew up with a good childhood (divorced parents, I took this hard but it was 5+ years ago), was active in many sports and was successful in all of them. I also will be graduating from Penn State University with a B.S. in Kinesiology, so the prestige/college experience is there.
Social life is fine, confident, and I feel I am good looking, yet I do have feelings of being depressed lately, mostly within the last 6 months or so. So maybe you are right, not really sure what to do.
Extrinsically, I am good, sort of materialistic in a way but intrinsically, I may not be all there. Depression does run in my family, perhaps there is a genetic component that surrounds me.
Also, along with this comes the girl aspect of it all. I know this might not be your area of expertise but I could use an opinion, one reason I am sad is because there are two girls that I like(d)
that graduated from Penn State with my same degree and left, but always hit the friend level because I never asked them out, yet I am a fairly confident person, had more to do with the idea
of getting denied.
That was in response to another thread, what can I do about this. I hope you can read this thoroughly!
Ok just took a read...let me ask you if I understand your problems correctly...I will post them below:
1. You suffer from depression but can't find a direct physical or emotional cause of it.
2. You know of women that you would like to be romantically involved with but are afraid to attempt anything for fear of being rejected.
Are those the two integral parts of your issue? If so, I would be glad to help you.
If there is more to it than that, please let me know and I will consider that before answering.