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Nov 27 2011 04:53am
Quote (Avoid @ Nov 27 2011 06:36am)
Ugly girls don't count.

And look good? Rofl..


I've already heard your ugly as hell so don't go there. I can back my shit up though, can you?

Quote (Da_PkEr @ Nov 27 2011 06:24am)
This is kinda what is most likely going to happen in my situation, except that I also had feelings to leave. Just mine weren't as physical as some of hers.
I think her want to see and meet other guys is a deal breaker and a big disrespect to me. But whatever, women are fucking nuts. They never know what they want, and as soon as they do, it changes.


Eh, not every girl is like that.. I've met my fair share of good girls but I've met a better share of girls who waste my time or either like to ruin a good thing.

This post was edited by Bluff on Nov 27 2011 04:54am
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Nov 27 2011 08:13am
may i ask what exactly was *incompatible* between you two? judging from what you already said about religion and politics being only 1 part, this really shouldnt be an issue. if you truely loved her and she didnt share your beliefs you would simply respect her beliefs and this should not even be considered a reason you guys arent compatible.

im not critizing but you havent really given the real reason you guys wont work out. theres not much advice to be given if you dont give details. you have said it yourself the religion/politics is not a major reason but you seem to be displeased with the answers you are getting. so in order to attempt to give you advice you would need to give all the details instead of complaining about the replies when you havent even told us a fraction of the real problem.

from a guy thats actually trying to help you out ( 4 years is alot of time wasted mang )
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Nov 27 2011 10:56am
Stupid reason to break up.
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Nov 27 2011 12:19pm
Quote (CMBurns @ Nov 27 2011 12:28am)
I haven't said anything about life in general. It's not like I spend every minute of every day thinking about her. I moved on years ago. But when I see her by dumb luck at the grocery store, etc, I resent her the same way I would a child molester, because what she did was unacceptable. There's nothing wrong with that and she's nowhere near "above" my level.

I have very few rules I live by and my main one is respect of the people I love. If you don't respect me, chances are I'll want to bash your skull in and pee in the cracks. It's something I've lived by for as long as I can remember. My mom has known not to yell at me, my bosses, teachers at school, etc.

She disrespected me entirely. She's a cunt.


The point is, if you resent her, she got to you, she won. And whilst you continue to resent her, it means you haven't moved on yet (despite what you claim). As long as she continues causing you negative emotions, she'll continue being better than you.
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Nov 27 2011 12:21pm
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The point is, if you resent her, she got to you, she won. And whilst you continue to resent her, it means you haven't moved on yet (despite what you claim). As long as she continues causing you negative emotions, she'll continue being better than you.


wanna explain how that makes her better than him?

that murderer killed my whole family, i have all these negative emotions towards him but wait hes better than me

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Nov 27 2011 12:33pm
Quote (Visage @ Nov 27 2011 09:21am)
wanna explain how that makes her better than him?

that murderer killed my whole family, i have all these negative emotions towards him but wait hes better than me


Being better than someone isn't about a moral high ground, being more aesthetic, or whatever it is you value. It's about retaining the ability to negatively influence someone to a greater extent than they can influence you. That's the definition of power.

"The power to cause pain is the only power that matters, the power to kill and destroy, because if you can't kill then you are always subject to those who can, and nothing and no one will ever save you."
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Nov 27 2011 12:38pm
rapdawg living in dat der medieval age
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Nov 27 2011 12:42pm
Quote (RapDawg @ Nov 27 2011 02:33pm)
Being better than someone isn't about a moral high ground, being more aesthetic, or whatever it is you value. It's about retaining the ability to negatively influence someone to a greater extent than they can influence you. That's the definition of power.

"The power to cause pain is the only power that matters, the power to kill and destroy, because if you can't kill then you are always subject to those who can, and nothing and no one will ever save you."


No i understand what you meant before all of that

but honestly lets think about it, does it really make someone better?

the answer is no
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Nov 27 2011 12:45pm
Quote (MyAddiction @ Nov 27 2011 09:38am)
rapdawg living in dat der medieval age


Nowadays it's more about the emotional/psychological level.

Quote (Visage @ Nov 27 2011 09:42am)
No i understand what you meant before all of that

but honestly lets think about it, does it really make someone better?

the answer is no


>Someone uses logic to disprove your argument
>Be incapable to do the same
>"Well lol logic totally goes against everything I've been taught my entire life, I can't just throw it out the window I'll be nothing without it I don't know how to change, so even though you're right I am going to say you aren't don't take it personal hahaha lol xD"
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Nov 27 2011 12:50pm
Quote (RapDawg @ Nov 27 2011 02:45pm)
Nowadays it's more about the emotional/psychological level.



>Someone uses logic to disprove your argument
>Be incapable to do the same
>"Well lol logic totally goes against everything I've been taught my entire life, I can't just throw it out the window I'll be nothing without it I don't know how to change, so even though you're right I am going to say you aren't don't take it personal hahaha lol xD"


lets pretend its completely logical that just because you influence someone to have negative emotions towards you it makes you 'better''

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