Hi. i posted this in a seperate thread as well, but it seems i can get some good advice here as well

So, i am out of shape, and decided i really need to get back on track.
Thing is, i am a complete newbie concidering training and fitness, and looking for help.
I have done some fitness before, but nothing much more then basic cardio.

Even with all the info on the web, i have to admit that i am in no place to decide on a training plan/meal plan because of this inexperience. any and all help is appreciated, so thanks in advance!
My goals : First i would like to get myself back down to a reasonable weight, going down to somewhere around 85 KG over the next 2-2,5 months seems reasonable to me.
my ultimate goal is to buff up and actually develop and tone my muscles. i admit this is more important to me then stamina/power at the moment.
My Stats :
Height: 198 cm // 6.5 ft
Weight: 98,5 KG // 217 lbs
Fat%: 16,4 (this was measured a few months ago though, when i weiged 9 kg less. i have no idea how to properly calculate this myself, but i figure my current fat% is a bit higher even).
I'd also like some major advice on a proper nutrition, at the moment i only eat 3 meals : breakfast, lunch and dinner at roughly 9 am, 1 pm and 7 pm. the things i eat at the moment can't really be called healthy either, mostly just white bread with meat for breakfast/lunch, sometimes breakfast cereal, and dinner is most often generic microwave stuff from the local super. as for drinks, it's usually just tea or water.
I work out 2/3 times a week. at the local gym, though i have to admit i have not been attending for about a month and a half. It's fully equipped with gear for most excersizes, so that should not be a problem.
As for weight lifting, i am unsure at this moment what i am comfertable with since i really only have done cardio workouts at most. from what i can estimate, i would say somewhere between 35-55 KG depending on the excersise.
So to sum it all up, i'm looking for both an excersize plan and meal plan wich tailer to my needs, the quicker the better (though i am not looking for something temporary, i want something i can build off from and turn into a new habit)
And again, the more detailed and specific, the better, the smaller the room for error is, the better. i guess a day-to-day plan is unreasonable, but i am looking for something close to that
