Quote (Tear @ 16 Sep 2016 11:47)
thats called being attractive.
not hard to keep your ego in check.
It's not called being attractive. I'm attractive and I don't really give 2 shits about my appearance at the end of the day compared to most people.
Maybe it's like you say though, it's not hard to keep your ego in check for some of us. I just don't understand what drives someone to want to compete in BB. No hate, I just don't get it.
I'm in no way saying they are actually like that in real life. I have no clue. It's just the appearance. I've met a lot of fuckboy douche bags at the gym who think they're king shit so my view is going to be skewed a bit on the matter.
That aside, I can't see how you aren't at least a bit of a narcissist if your life is literally devoted to your appearance. Your whole identity is wrapped up in it.
It is the same for me with instagram women. Sure they're physically attractive but I just can't get past fact they take constant pictures of themselves. It ruins it for me.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I don't find the BB dudes mentioned in OP that aesthetically ideal. I come from an athletes background and that's not how an athlete develops or looks.
The un-naturally small waist and hips relative to shoulders isn't natural. I think you (Tear) look better than those guys.
I'll catch hate on it, but if I had to choose one physique to work towards it would without a doubt either be a sprinter, or a high level crossfit person.
Anyways, that's a big rant. sorry