lold this

No, fingerling, what she is doing is not normal.

How is it not normal? We can't be expected to hangout everyday.... What she is going to invite me to go every time she goes out??
U guys proly don't even gave a gf

A healthy relationship includes your significant other inviting you out all the time. From your original post it sounds like youre saying "my gf goes out and has fun and doesn't ever invite me"

Such a lack of understanding of human dynamics and relations, are you sure when the Dr was diagnosing your BPD and depression that he didn't say mild autism instead?

Here's an example:


We hangout from 1pm sunday to 10am Monday when she then leaves for work

We don't talk much the rest of the day-- small texts


Tuesday she goes to a small concert with some friends at about 9pm


I am not invited.

I like how you create a topic asking about things cus you are insecure about it, and then spin around and try to defend her

Sounds like a minuscule problem nothing to really worry about

This post was edited by jimtheflow on Aug 6 2014 12:11pm

So it's not a big deal aka normal

I don't know you or your gfs personality that's for you to judge. The way you explain things is misleading every time lol