always jerk off b4 i go [anywhere].

This is actually the perfect thread, okay so ive been playing eye contact tag with this bunny from the gym recently but i cant figure out how to approach her. im pretty good with women but in this situation i just dont know how to do it.

i dont do any cardio at the gym, just weights and shes pretty much a runner, we both wear headphones at all times, i lift hard and am usually short of breathe and/or lightheaded, girls always complain that they feel gross when theyre sweating...... so i just dont know what to do. i dont know her name, or any of her friends even. i think shes new to the area.

she came up behind me at the water cooler while i was filling a bottle and said "good idea, i hate stopping all the time" im pretty sure just to start conversation but she was behind me and by the time i turned around to see who it was i was all light headed and just blurted something out like "yeah fucking water" so i havent been able to pull the trigger since.

someone throw me a bone here!

Start doing cardio and compliment her sport wear

heard of this before from multiple girls



can confirm.

actually LOLED at bold part. Make a second meeting at the water cooler happen. Then be jovial and approachable, say hi etc.

@ red part. Much confirm, she wants you to throw her a bone. your bone. nawimean???

In al seriousness, if a girl is giving you the eyes, don't wait too long or lose out. They'll only stay interested so long, if you don't make a move, they'll move on. Been there. oops

This post was edited by rlebar on Nov 17 2015 09:45pm

so you're telling me the small blonde chick at my gym a few saturdays ago with the absolute phattest ass I've ever seen, literally had me half chub all workout, that kept making eye contact from the other side of the gym, who walked up to me in between my sets on chest press machine and asked if "hey have you seen anyone using this machine? Or are you using it..?" since it was racked, and then asked if I needed any of the plates off of it, was initiating a conversation, wants the D, and is going to lose interest soon? She was doing cardio on the other side of the gym before coming over there to lift 1 machine away from me and I was no longer doing lifts with my buddy.

I lift @ 5am mon-fri, so a Saturday @ peak hours w/ my buddy is rare, first time in months, so this girl had never seen me me before. Maybe gym bunnies are in to beards.

edit for good measure: I had a girlfriend at the time so I made no effort to communicate with her other than take a earbud out, say "nahhh looks like that machine is all you haha! :)" put earbud back in and not pay attention to what she said afterwards. I'm single now niggas looks like if info rlebar r

This post was edited by ug_warrior(xtc) on Nov 17 2015 10:36pm

a lot of what I said was a joke, obviously.

But to be serious for a moment, context is important. Strong eye contact can be a pretty big indicator but there are usually other signs that you notice as well.

It's hard to say if a girls interested without actually observing her behaviour and mannerisms as opposed to having it explained, which can't tell the whole story; you can't pick up on the finer nuances of the interaction and that's where words fall short

I'm in the "no" group for the poll. Generally speaking, I hate the gym. So many vain people there. I'm there to better myself so I keep to myself as much as possible

just to be clear though the poll is "is it creepy" not if it is acceptable or ok or do you do it

lmao oops. It was 5:17 am, I should have been sleeping, not attempting to think.