Quote (StealthGodx @ Sep 28 2015 07:40pm)
i was in the same type of situation 6 years ago when me and my wife first got together
he turned on a video of people fighting in a backyard and said he likes to handle his business straight up
so i invited him outside and he shut up real quik
just keep in mind the loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room ;)
Seems like they might just be brothers lol. I'me very good at keeping my cool, but you know how it is when someone is being loud, obnoxious, and straight up disrespectful to your ole lady. Can be pretty hard to refrain from calling them out on their shit.
you will be fine
Quote (PureOwnage2 @ Sep 28 2015 08:41pm)
Bunch of ridiculous responses here. Don't fight him and don't even entertain the thought of doing so. You don't need to flex your alpha card or anything of the such. Shake his hand. Introduce yourself. That's all you need to do. Show some respect and ignore any attempt he makes to get you worked up. Being a man is not determined by who can fight the best. A man thinks through his actions. Also, take into account the child. He's what is most important in this situation and thrashing his dad (verbally or physically) will do no good for the child.
Source: My girlfriend has a goofy baby dad that's said stupid things about me.
Your advice is always solid as fuck mate. This is how im going into it. Like i told her when we talked about meeting, I honestly don't want to be confrontational with the guy, but some of these assholes can make it really hard to do that. I've been a Deputy Sheriff going on 3 years now, and military before this, so im good at keeping my cool, but when it comes to family it seems like all that training goes out the window.
Quote (LoveSilenced @ Sep 28 2015 08:43pm)
So my question is how retarded is your wife if this is what she chose previously?
Started dating when they were like 17, had been together 8 years before she finally realized he was never going to grow the hell up. I sum it up to being young and dumb.
Quote (dirTyMan @ Sep 28 2015 10:09pm)
The fact that she has a baby daddy pretty much indicates you're all trailer trash.
I'm not sure its trashy if they had been together 8 years. Not really sure i appreciate being called trailer trash either good sir. I have never once resided in a trailer lol
Quote (orpimpin1201 @ Sep 29 2015 06:22am)
When you're a pos like that, does it really matter how you feel?
Very true, but i feel that i need to atleast give the guy a chance. Honestly im still hoping his ass just drops off the face of the earth. We are about ready to move an hour away from him, and im pretty certain he wil start to drop off. He already only comes around maybe once a month at best and we ar only 15 minutes away.
This post was edited by nickerbocker57 on Sep 29 2015 04:28am