I think your biggest problem is jealousy. So what if someone speaks better than you or whatever, it's no reason to hate him or yourself. It's your judgment of these situations that make you angry or anxious, not the situations themselves.

The answer is: Who is Dexter Morgan!?

Ooo, re-watching this series again, such a good character development. Also, I have to respect the troll OP, your OP had me trying to figure out if you really were mildly retarded or not lol.

You can't let them push you around man, you gotta find the baddest person at your work and shank them in front of everybody. then they'll start listening no matter how retarded you sound.

Well socially retarded maybe/low emotional intelligence/autistic. my IQ is above average but i am very independent and hate working with teams for projects. I'm actually legit asking for advice on how to develop my weak points in personality and wit and debate and come backs. Not too douch baggy but enough so that I'm never a target for being socially bullied and can defend myself. I feel like I'll never get to that point so instead I was trying to work out so I get bulky and people won't want to bully me verbally because of my size

it's not about speaks better. its that I feel like I don't have basic verbal communication skills and just makes me angry and frustrated when I can't explain my thoughts or point of view.

can't tell if srs or really good troll

Yeah I'm having a hard time now too. I mean, it makes sense, what he said about being big and thinking you won't get bullied.. but honestly, that's just going to draw more attention to yourself. People are now going to joke with you more because they see you as confident. You can't change another persons personality and how they interact with people.

But, I will say.. if you look like a complete dweeb and don't shower, people will avoid you and you can keep doing you.

No worries man, pure troll.

please, listen to this advice.



jacked, yes. strong personality... not always, as you can see.

OP is saying it isn't in his genetic makeup to have as strong and outgoing of a personality as he'd like to, to combat the problems he faces. of course we know that character is the biggest factor when it comes to social standards here, but it isn't in the cards for OP. he's got his shit.

instead he chooses to try and get big, and you guys talk shit and call him a troll? that's truly pathetic. when it comes to character, you shitheads have it worse than OP, he has an excuse for his quirks. you don't have an excuse for your ignorance.

firstly, flat out, you either want to gain muscle or learn how to fight. learning how to fight will not necessarily make you gain muscle. gaining muscle DEFINITELY will not help you know how to fight. as a means of self-defense, absolutely, learn how to fight. if you're just gonna go out there and kick peoples asses because of your distaste for humanity...

when practicing martial arts you learn it comes with a responsibility. also, when you KNOW you can kick somebody's ass, you really do turn to violence as a last resort (think about it, you could break somebody's jaw without thinking twice then wind up paying for all their medical bills + paying pain and suffering. no bueno.) it's irresponsible.