Quote (Lancet_Jade @ Aug 20 2014 03:46am)

I like the list idea thanks man, it was fucking hard to break up but being in the military and stationed overseas is tough for relationships... I just followed my gut feeling.

I think you made the right choice man, obv you broke up with her for some reason.



I'm gonna go do it today =)

Quote (Orakpo @ Aug 20 2014 04:01am)

Rhodes
Idk how a girl could be the one if she's capable of doing that.

Good job leaving her srs

Quote (Goobear @ Aug 20 2014 01:09am)

You can always take me out on a hot date

Quote (bnrhodes2 @ Aug 20 2014 01:32am)

I'm trying to make a list again, but everything I want to do either takes a lot of space, a lot of money, or both. But, distance can definitely be a relationship killer (that was a big reason my first relationship ended, which was also 3 years - I moved to AZ and she was in PA).

I wish you best of luck. Just keep busy if you can!

Quote (bnrhodes2 @ Aug 20 2014 01:57am)

My recommendation, find things to occupy your time and don't look back.

4 months later and I'm still regretting the decision of breaking up with my gf of 3 years (who would have been 'the one'). I made a list of things to do, and went about doing them - it took me a few months, but I got out of my 'depression' or whatever you want to call it.

Now, I'm completely fucking wrecked again - but worse than before. After not talking to her for a few months, she randomly added me on Snapchat this Saturday night and then messaged me if I wanted to hang out. I already had people at my house, so I told her I would take a rain check to which she said okay. I thought that I had finally gotten the second chance to make things right with her. The next morning, I noticed she had blocked me on Snapchat. So, I texted her last night wanting to know what the deal was. She said she wanted sex, now she doesn't, simple as that. I told her I thought that was fucked up as she know how I feel about that (I am of a select few that doesn't like the idea of sex w/o intimacy), and how I feel about her. She went on to tell me that she is completely over me, always will be, she was horny and didn't care, and that I should now fuck off and have a good life. I just woke up from sleeping for 20 hours after that, and am the most emotionally fucked I've ever been.

Quote (Balla @ Aug 20 2014 12:22pm)

Wow dude Jesus, fuck her. How vile and spiteful
You made the right choice m9
I feel for you bc I know that depressed feeling you're speaking of.. And after 3 months too?

As for her changing, I've seen that before, even from others, when the girl is emotionally "damaged" per se. Women are fucking crazy.

Quote (bnrhodes2 @ 20 Aug 2014 01:57)

My recommendation, find things to occupy your time and don't look back.

4 months later and I'm still regretting the decision of breaking up with my gf of 3 years (who would have been 'the one'). I made a list of things to do, and went about doing them - it took me a few months, but I got out of my 'depression' or whatever you want to call it.

Now, I'm completely fucking wrecked again - but worse than before. After not talking to her for a few months, she randomly added me on Snapchat this Saturday night and then messaged me if I wanted to hang out. I already had people at my house, so I told her I would take a rain check to which she said okay. I thought that I had finally gotten the second chance to make things right with her. The next morning, I noticed she had blocked me on Snapchat. So, I texted her last night wanting to know what the deal was. She said she wanted sex, now she doesn't, simple as that. I told her I thought that was fucked up as she know how I feel about that (I am of a select few that doesn't like the idea of sex w/o intimacy), and how I feel about her. She went on to tell me that she is completely over me, always will be, she was horny and didn't care, and that I should now fuck off and have a good life. I just woke up from sleeping for 20 hours after that, and am the most emotionally fucked I've ever been.

Quote (bnrhodes2 @ Aug 20 2014 07:57am)

My recommendation, find things to occupy your time and don't look back.

4 months later and I'm still regretting the decision of breaking up with my gf of 3 years (who would have been 'the one'). I made a list of things to do, and went about doing them - it took me a few months, but I got out of my 'depression' or whatever you want to call it.

Now, I'm completely fucking wrecked again - but worse than before. After not talking to her for a few months, she randomly added me on Snapchat this Saturday night and then messaged me if I wanted to hang out. I already had people at my house, so I told her I would take a rain check to which she said okay. I thought that I had finally gotten the second chance to make things right with her. The next morning, I noticed she had blocked me on Snapchat. So, I texted her last night wanting to know what the deal was. She said she wanted sex, now she doesn't, simple as that. I told her I thought that was fucked up as she know how I feel about that (I am of a select few that doesn't like the idea of sex w/o intimacy), and how I feel about her. She went on to tell me that she is completely over me, always will be, she was horny and didn't care, and that I should now fuck off and have a good life. I just woke up from sleeping for 20 hours after that, and am the most emotionally fucked I've ever been.

Quote (bnrhodes2 @ Aug 20 2014 10:32am)

She completely changed - I never saw this side of her before. I was her first boyfriend, and when I ended it, it was like a switch flipped. She got weird, then mean (which I can understand). I just have a feeling that people around her have pushed her in a certain direction while she was trying to deal with that I did. It is over, but I still hate trying to get my head right.

Quote (bnrhodes2 @ 19 Aug 2014 22:57)

My recommendation, find things to occupy your time and don't look back.

4 months later and I'm still regretting the decision of breaking up with my gf of 3 years (who would have been 'the one'). I made a list of things to do, and went about doing them - it took me a few months, but I got out of my 'depression' or whatever you want to call it.

Now, I'm completely fucking wrecked again - but worse than before. After not talking to her for a few months, she randomly added me on Snapchat this Saturday night and then messaged me if I wanted to hang out. I already had people at my house, so I told her I would take a rain check to which she said okay. I thought that I had finally gotten the second chance to make things right with her. The next morning, I noticed she had blocked me on Snapchat. So, I texted her last night wanting to know what the deal was. She said she wanted sex, now she doesn't, simple as that. I told her I thought that was fucked up as she know how I feel about that (I am of a select few that doesn't like the idea of sex w/o intimacy), and how I feel about her. She went on to tell me that she is completely over me, always will be, she was horny and didn't care, and that I should now fuck off and have a good life. I just woke up from sleeping for 20 hours after that, and am the most emotionally fucked I've ever been.

Quote (dark-soul @ 20 Aug 2014 00:24)

Her being like that should reaffirm that you made the right choice.

Quote (bnrhodes2 @ Aug 20 2014 12:57am)

My recommendation, find things to occupy your time and don't look back.

4 months later and I'm still regretting the decision of breaking up with my gf of 3 years (who would have been 'the one'). I made a list of things to do, and went about doing them - it took me a few months, but I got out of my 'depression' or whatever you want to call it.

Now, I'm completely fucking wrecked again - but worse than before. After not talking to her for a few months, she randomly added me on Snapchat this Saturday night and then messaged me if I wanted to hang out. I already had people at my house, so I told her I would take a rain check to which she said okay. I thought that I had finally gotten the second chance to make things right with her. The next morning, I noticed she had blocked me on Snapchat. So, I texted her last night wanting to know what the deal was. She said she wanted sex, now she doesn't, simple as that. I told her I thought that was fucked up as she know how I feel about that (I am of a select few that doesn't like the idea of sex w/o intimacy), and how I feel about her. She went on to tell me that she is completely over me, always will be, she was horny and didn't care, and that I should now fuck off and have a good life. I just woke up from sleeping for 20 hours after that, and am the most emotionally fucked I've ever been.