i would like to point out to YOU that he is also 6'4
i am 5'9 and i weigh 190lbs, and im deff not fat.
OP
i would advise u to go to SkyRaynors thread at the top of this forum, he gives free advice (jst copy and paist ur original post)
but here is what i think
you goals are kinda mixed together... to get "stronger" you need to lift heavy, remember anything can be used as weights.
( i flip a 500lb tire for one of my workouts
)
trees,logs, anything you can find.
now to "tone" has more to do with diet, you should be eating frequently ( roughly every 3 hours )
you need proteins ( meats,chicken,fish,tuna, etc )
and eat lots of veggies 2.
your meals should be smaller since ur eating more frequently.
edit
i see someone else already directed you torwards that thread