hello raynor, i've been wanting to get on the fitness bandwagon for a while.
here's some background information and i hope you can help guide me onto the right path:
I've been going to the gym on and off for several years with no significant progress due to some injuries and poor diet (not necessarily unhealthy). I guess i've always lacked discipline and consistency. Partly, It was due to me always being concerned about what my parents would think of me and they would always give me shit whenever I brought the food scale out to weigh my foods. even when I was going to the gym, I was never eating right since I ate everything my mom cooked which lacked protein. Now that I am finally out of college and working full time, I have some money to afford groceries and buy what I want so no more excuses.
I'm not trying to become a bodybuilder or a powerlifter (any level of bodybuilding is bodybuilding but I'm not looking to compete); I would love to get rid of the skinny fat "dad bod" i have going on and build some mass and aesthetics. I've also played sports for most of my life and one of my life long goals is to dunk a basketball.
I know the basics such as macros, calories in and and calories out, exercise forms, and the importance of compound lifts but I still have a few concerns on how to go about all this especially diet (cooking/meal prepping in general). I've never dieted a day in my life even though I try to stay cautious of what I eat, it's just very difficult eating my mom's food and living at home.
I will attempt to do this living at home before I save enough money to move out.
any advice on the following would be great:
- meal prep (i'm afraid i might get tired of eating the same thing day in and day out..)
- tupperware recommendation (plastic not good for microwaves?)
- weighing foods like grapes, avocados (different sizes), mangoes, watermelons?? should I weigh all foods?
- measuring cups/spoons, body weight scale, and food scale
- i know this one depends on the person's preference, but gym before work or after work? i work in a 9-6 office job MON-FRI, staying sedentary for most of the day. i'm in traffic for 90 minutes on most days.
- any other important things I've left out, please feel free to chime in.
my current stats:
5' 9'' w/o shoes
167-169 lbs
I've been experiencing low back pain for a little more than a year now. I've finally requested an MRI in the coming weeks and scheduled an appointment to see a spine specialist so I'm really excited about that. I hope I can go back to where I was before and squatting...being 100% healthy is very important to me.
I hope I did not bore you with too much information; I'm sure these types of questions have been asked hundreds of times. I really appreciate your patience and everything you do for this community. Thank you!

This post was edited by iGotThatFiyah on Oct 18 2015 03:13pm