So err, I've got a couple of questions, pretty basic I think, and probably already answered in this thread, but I don't feel like looking through 1429 pages to find what I'm looking for

First things first, I kinda need help with a training routine. Right now I kind of do what I feel like at the time, needs more structure I think. If this could incorporate deadlifts, squats and benchpresses atleast, i'd be happy. Since I've heard those are the most beneficial excersises.
I'm working full time, and sometimes more than that, so 4-5 times a week is max I can get to the gym, sometimes less.
Second of all, I think that I've got some troubles eating enough, never done the math behind it, but it feels like it. Since I go hungry most of the days, neither do I know what I should be consuming more of.
( I don't know how to do the math either, so.. )
What I thought you could help me with is this, a basic 'what-to-eat-at-what-time' thingy. The times during the day that I can actually eat is :
5 am - wakeup, go to work at 5:30
9 am - 9:15 - Breakfast at work
Noon - 12:30 - Lunch at work
2:30 pm - 2:45 - Break at work
And then if I'm not working over, I'll eat at like 6 again at home, and then go train. After that I'm pretty much free.
I suppose I could squeeze in a shake or something at work sometime, but can't really make a habit out of it.
Last but not least, I'm lactose intolerant, and I don't really like fish, so if you could take that into account that'd be great!
EDIT: Oh, and I would like to both pack on strenght and volume, as well as loosing some fat if possible.
EDIT2: I'm 6"4 and like 198 pounds. ( 195 cm and 90ish kilos, bit less I think )
EDIT3: (looots of edits going on) - Can send you some pictures if that would help you judging how I look etc. Just PM me. PM me anyways if you can, when you've answered
Thanks alot!
This post was edited by Papelado on Jul 2 2012 11:39am