Well well well, I guess I was right with the 1st few words in my post (looking back to it now, I'm sad that I even bothered to give advice):
http://forums.d2jsp.org/topic.php?t=71777250&f=162A: You claim to be a transgender, who's still going through the process. Props to you, gl with it all.
B: You claim to be moving in with a partner? Which is a male, according to the posts made in linked thread.
I've personaly known transgenders, who spent a ton of money to get a sex change, and so forth. And are now happily married. What I also know is that during the whole process, specially at the beginning stages like yourself... theres almost no chance that someone would romantically get involved with you. For obvious reasons, that I'm sure "smart" ppl could comprehend.
C: You deleted my comment from your latest pic. Which I guess hit a nerve.
Good luck with w/e you're trying to execute here on Jsp.