I could give you the whole fucktwat talk of "self-confidence" and "if she needs impressing she wasn't worth it in the first place." If you want a cumdumpster all you need is a wallet and a local bar.

If you can't find a quality girl, and you want a relationship, that's nature telling you to make positive changes. So change. If you think you suck, you might suck, so fix it. Do what you need to do. Life is a journey & it doesn't last forever. Don't fuck up by wasting too much time, and don't fuck up by rushing things.

Self confidence shouldn't come from acceptance of who you are. That's horse jizz. If you are of sane mind, it should come the satisfaction in knowing that you are on the track you want to be on right now. Remember, there's a difference between being the champion, and being on the right path to being a champion. You don't have to be at the end game to be confident.

This post was edited by Canadian_Man on Apr 7 2017 12:52am

Why don't you try and join a book club or something similar? I mean there are plenty of chicks who like to read and that's a gateway to establish new connections. You'll instantly have something in common.
If you feel that you have confident issues, try to find an environment that you feel safe and confident in. Practice positive imagery and project that surrounding to situations you feel insecure.

I hear Grindr is a great app for lonely guys. Conan O'Brian even recommends it, he met some cool dudes with the app.

This post was edited by Canadian_Man on Apr 7 2017 05:42am

yeah well I live at home still and am about to get disability for mental disorders so i'm pretty much fukd

also my fibromyalgia acts up during periods of stress and those turn out to be pretty much any instances involving other humans. also have derealization/depersonalization disorder so the way I view the world is fucking weird. also my schizotypal personality disorder causes lots of very strange thoughts and perspectives on things. i'm pretty weird. I also have genius level intellect which doesn't help matters as it's hard to connect with people who don't understand things the way I do

half the time I don't even want a g.f I just want someone to have sex with.. I had this problem before. had a g/f for a few months who I would force myself to spend time with so I could have sex. god it sucked

From someone who was big/dropped weight/ built now

Get out and talk to more girls. Losing bodyfat and building muscle will help but woman don't judge us by body type like we do them.
Its about social skills, and money.
Unless you're just looking for models or casual hookups.