Quote (neekzisonfire @ Oct 22 2015 10:49am)
I'm doing bench presses right now for the first time and I have 2 25s on both sides and the bar is wobbly as fuck man this is embarsssing
Nobody gives a fuck bro you just need to do you. Everyone in the gym knows that everyone starts somewhere. If anything you can ask them to help you and you'll see how friendly they are (As long as they're not doing anything at the moment) and I'm very confident anyone there would be willing to help you with an exercise.
If the bar is wobbly, take some weight off and work your way up slowly. Focus on balancing the bar and your hand position. You could be having one hand overcompensating for the other by where your hands are placed.