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May 30 2015 12:39pm
Quote (Yohey @ May 30 2015 01:27pm)
Just murder her, go to prison, lift weights and get a boyfriend.. thats what my buddy did.



You don't have friends
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May 30 2015 12:53pm
Quote (iBrent @ May 30 2015 02:39pm)
You don't have friends


that's not the only kind of "buddy"
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May 30 2015 12:57pm
Quote (GodisLove @ May 30 2015 05:19pm)
Bro, keep in there, bro.

We've all been there, you're gonna feel like absolute fucking SHIT the next couple of days. Keep your mind busy, your body busy and masturbate to the extreme opposite of your girl on pornsites, bro.

Get it out of your system by any means necessary, don't think back, bro, don't contact her, don't play fucking mindgames and text her all the time.

Over is over, bro. So suck it up for the next couple of days and bounce back hard. Over the back. Of another girl.

Small bro-advice, bro. If you're really the commitment bro, might wanna loose up and go out with a girl just for going out with her without clinging onto it that hard, bro.

Good luck, bro.


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May 30 2015 01:19pm
Quote (Boilermakers @ May 30 2015 09:40am)
Just lookin for some advice I guess.

Girl broke up with me yesterday, ofc waited till the day I was working an 11 hour shift to do so. Was miserable stuck at work by myself trying not to break down. It's my longest relationship ever as for I've never really been a relationship person and then was with her for 1.5 years and had engagement plans. Miserably depressed right now.


I guess my biggest problem is this feeling like I can't do any better. I mean I haven't been single since before I turned 21 (currently 22) and I don't really even remember how to "spit game". I ran through sloots my first couple years of college and after meeting her I calmed down so much, I don't even feel like the same person. Seems petty, I know, but I tend to get attached easily.


I know some of you m8s have been through shitty situations with women so curious for advice to help with being depressed and moving on.


Shit will hurt for a little while. It will take maybe a few months before you completely get over it, but it's not bad to look back on things and remember the good times. Just don't think that there isn't another girl out there.

Have a few hook ups if it's possible. Set up a FWB BUT DON'T GET HOOKED. It will be easy to get emotions since you want that attention and love again, but just fuck around.
Took myself 2-3 months before I was fully over her.
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May 30 2015 01:26pm
Quote (iBrent @ May 30 2015 01:39pm)
You don't have friends


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May 30 2015 03:58pm
i've been there.

spend a few months at least alone, as in, don't try to get into a relationship again too quick due to being sad or lonely. fwbs are fine if you're into that. this is due to a few reasons that i've found to be true:

we develop the most as human beings in our time spent alone. some people's personalities dull down while settling down with somebody for a long time. some people's personalities just change or mesh with their partners. etc etc etc. in one way or another, it usually happens. after a few months your personality will be more genuine to your true self, you won't have troubles comparing other girls to the one who left, you won't have negative vibes anymore, it'll be better.

not to mention everybody grows from bad experiences, whether it be good or bad. don't become sour and jaded, try to keep optimistic.

you'll be ight
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May 30 2015 06:06pm
Quote (Yohey @ May 30 2015 02:27pm)
Just murder her, go to prison, lift weights and get a boyfriend.. thats what my buddy did.



You the boyfriend?
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May 30 2015 09:24pm
Quote (Blacjac91 @ May 30 2015 07:06pm)
You the boyfriend?


Yeah... no homo.
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May 31 2015 01:07am
my advice:

Take the time to better yourself. Figure out some things you would like to do/learn and do them. At 22, you have tons of time to find someone to marry (as that seemed to be what you had in mind), even though it might not seem like it.

I am 24 myself and got out of a 3 year relationship last year. Was feeling the same shit - which I think most do if they actually cared for someone. But, I made a list of things that I want to learn and started doing them. Now, I honestly have no current interest in a relationship. Dating here and there, sure, but serious, no not really. I have a lot of other shit I would like to do before having a permanent connection for the rest of my life.

You might think you can't do better, but if you actually do something with yourself and make yourself more skilled and therefore more interesting, there will be much better out there. From what I'm learning, it really doesn't take a whole lot to set yourself apart from the heard either - doing your own thing and not worrying about women seems to actually draw them in lol.

You will get through it. Might take a little while, but you will.
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May 31 2015 05:43am
Go out partying and run one thru as many girls as possible.
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