Quote (Boilermakers @ May 30 2015 09:40am)
Just lookin for some advice I guess.
Girl broke up with me yesterday, ofc waited till the day I was working an 11 hour shift to do so. Was miserable stuck at work by myself trying not to break down. It's my longest relationship ever as for I've never really been a relationship person and then was with her for 1.5 years and had engagement plans. Miserably depressed right now.
I guess my biggest problem is this feeling like I can't do any better. I mean I haven't been single since before I turned 21 (currently 22) and I don't really even remember how to "spit game". I ran through sloots my first couple years of college and after meeting her I calmed down so much, I don't even feel like the same person. Seems petty, I know, but I tend to get attached easily.
I know some of you m8s have been through shitty situations with women so curious for advice to help with being depressed and moving on.
Shit will hurt for a little while. It will take maybe a few months before you completely get over it, but it's not bad to look back on things and remember the good times. Just don't think that there isn't another girl out there.
Have a few hook ups if it's possible. Set up a FWB BUT DON'T GET HOOKED. It will be easy to get emotions since you want that attention and love again, but just fuck around.
Took myself 2-3 months before I was fully over her.