Duuuuude

i guess it's time to update cliifs:

-op gets pushed into marriage at 22
-about to divorce at 24... but wife gets pregnant
-we decide to stay together to make it work for the kid
-i find out she fooled around on me while we were separated... tells me dates and it's months apart.... i didn't get a test here, should have
-she quits her job and we buy a house. she stays home to raise the kid
-OP has an affair and felt no guilt. didn't love my wife anymore
-2 years of self medicating and hating my life but sucking it up because the kid needs her dad
-never felt a connection with my own daughter... thought i was emotionally broken
-trying to do the right thing. put her before myself
-finally fed up and ask for a divorce.
-i get a dna test just to be 100% before paying child support
-billie jean that ain't my kid
-ex doesn't want to tell the real dad
-attorney says i have to split assets, but no child support nor alimony
-also says we are naming the real father in court and having him served papers.
the ex is LIVID about this... but not her choice

Won't even lie, betrayal of that level to me would have me contemplating putting hands on a woman...

"-also says we are naming the real father in court and having him served papers."

damn. this girl fuked two guys real well.

literally and figuratively

feel bad for all involved.

women are cray sometimes

Bro u look like 45 why do u have fresh prince of bel air in ur avatar and sig

Damn that fucking sucks.... Who can we trust anymore? I feel like every girl cheat some day or another, makes it damn hard to trust them..

reading the BB one cause more info.

look op you need to quit having any consideration for what she wants, tell that father before hand like this fella said..
she betrayed you, she played you, don't fall into her guilt trips or attempts for sympathy now that shes the vulnerable one.

weeks from now when she understands she might miss out on thousands of $$ due to the child support, she will throw away any care she has/had for you, to get that paper.



did you know sloot slept w/ ur friend at the time??since you knew she was mingling? or did u just find out it was him when u got the pat test?


can only hope having a baby ruins friends current relationship goals w/ new gf.

This post was edited by yostraydog on Feb 23 2015 01:11pm

i'm almost 28. fresh prince was my jam growing up. still is haha

she told me before the kid was born. let me find the bbpost where i explained it

we separated in march but kept screwing
july she told me she was a month pregnant so we decided to make it work
few months go by and she told me that she had sex with my friend but she said he just put it in once and then she started crying and made him stop. she said this happened in april and only then
she was honest about cheating, so i just believed her about the WHEN since it was less of a lie (or so i thought)

according to the time line she gave me, there was no chance it could have been his

This post was edited by et3rnal on Feb 23 2015 01:14pm

this thread deserves to be on the misc, not jsp

chit son

post pics of ex