Quote (bnrhodes2 @ Aug 19 2014 10:57pm)
My recommendation, find things to occupy your time and don't look back.
4 months later and I'm still regretting the decision of breaking up with my gf of 3 years (who would have been 'the one'). I made a list of things to do, and went about doing them - it took me a few months, but I got out of my 'depression' or whatever you want to call it.
Now, I'm completely fucking wrecked again - but worse than before. After not talking to her for a few months, she randomly added me on Snapchat this Saturday night and then messaged me if I wanted to hang out. I already had people at my house, so I told her I would take a rain check to which she said okay. I thought that I had finally gotten the second chance to make things right with her. The next morning, I noticed she had blocked me on Snapchat. So, I texted her last night wanting to know what the deal was. She said she wanted sex, now she doesn't, simple as that. I told her I thought that was fucked up as she know how I feel about that (I am of a select few that doesn't like the idea of sex w/o intimacy), and how I feel about her. She went on to tell me that she is completely over me, always will be, she was horny and didn't care, and that I should now fuck off and have a good life. I just woke up from sleeping for 20 hours after that, and am the most emotionally fucked I've ever been.
I like the list idea thanks man, it was fucking hard to break up but being in the military and stationed overseas is tough for relationships... I just followed my gut feeling.
I think you made the right choice man, obv you broke up with her for some reason.
Quote (GodisLove @ Aug 19 2014 11:29pm)
How dare you skip a shoulder workout, you pussy!
I'm gonna go do it today =)