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Aug 1 2014 09:39pm
Maybe you haven't had a really good friend.

My ex girlfriend died awhile ago and it didn't phase me.

My friend who I played football and wrestled with died and I didn't cry. I thought about our good memories with girls and stuff and it doesn't phase me.

My best friend died last Christmas. He was the most popular guy in our school as a junior and a senior. Everyone loved him. He was the nicest guy and we used to hang out every single day after school.

He was the only guy who I wanted to hang out with after a break up and he is the only guy who I could cry around and feel like it's ok.

He died last Christmas and my heart sank. It literally sank and I couldn't say a word for a good hour or two. I was shocked. I teared on and off for weeks. even now...I have dreams about all our friends. He would be there and I would wake up pissed.

That one hurt me a lot. You have to have good friends with good connections to actually feel pain. I have 100's of friends who could die right now and I wouldn't really care as much. I would care but I would not be overwhelmed with sadness

My auntie in California could die and I would be sad, but I bet it would fade away from my memory after a few weeks or months. Nice people have more impact then regular people who are just "friends" We all have way to many friends. Some are just closer and nicer then others.

This post was edited by expressaa on Aug 1 2014 09:42pm
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Aug 1 2014 10:40pm
if you have no emotional connection with the people who died

you will feel no pain


unless your a saint and you feel pain for everyone.
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Aug 1 2014 10:44pm
its like going to funerals

i dont know the person who died.


i dont feel any pain.


but if you think of death and that life was lost. It is sad in that way.


The same could be said on many other occasions.



You only truly feel pain, in my opinion, when you are really connected to those who died.
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Aug 1 2014 10:57pm
i dont feel anything for people. i didnt cry/care at grandparents funeral.

lacking empathy 100%

went like 3 yrs w.o tlking to my sister who lives in the same house cuz i was mad at her for something.
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Aug 1 2014 11:00pm
Quote (fingerling @ Aug 1 2014 10:57pm)
i dont feel anything for people. i didnt cry/care at grandparents funeral.

lacking empathy 100%

went like 3 yrs w.o tlking to my sister who lives in the same house cuz i was mad at her for something.




I pretty much agree with this 100%

I feel indifferent to the fate of other people and I think a lot of us feel that way because of how selfish we are. Nobody gives a fuck anymore and it's not a mental illness, it's just the human condition.


It doesn't help that 90% of humans are totally fucking retarded and I feel that they don't even deserve to live.

I would feel sadness and pity to see a cat die, but feel nothing if a dumb ass yoga pant wearing yolo bitch got squashed by a bus.

It's funny how the world changes people. As a kid I never imagined I would feel like this toward other human beings, yet the thought of shooting a stupid bitch or bro in the head seems as easy as breathing is these days.

With that said, though.. there are those who use the gift of life wisely and I would feel terrible about seeing them die in any fashion. So this isn't a hate for human beings, I think I just don't like losers wasting space, and not only do some of them waste space.. but they have the audacity to cause problems around them like a cancer. (Ie. fat chicks who get in your face about their weight, perfect example.)

This post was edited by slacks420 on Aug 1 2014 11:16pm
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Aug 1 2014 11:24pm
I wonder how these self diagnosed psychopaths would react to their mum dying
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Aug 1 2014 11:33pm
Quote (dro94 @ Aug 1 2014 10:24pm)
I wonder how these self diagnosed psychopaths would react to their mum dying


They were probably beat by their parents. So they wouldn't feel much.

That's probably why they don't feel much in the first place.

If your parents hurt you and doesn't love you.....why would you feel anything?

I just feel bad for people like that. lol.

I'm surrounded by a lot of nice people who are rich. They don't worry about anything and nothing negative comes.

So you're able to feel more and understand more.
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Aug 1 2014 11:34pm
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I wonder how these self diagnosed psychopaths would react to their mum dying


dont think i would care to be honest.

someone who deeply loves their parents can 100% think about them dying and know for certain how distraught they would be on that day.

no reason someone can't also think about it and know that they wouldn't care.
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Aug 1 2014 11:40pm
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I wonder how these self diagnosed psychopaths would react to their mum dying



Nobody here is trying to make the label of psychopath fashionable.

We were asked a question and answered it to the best of our abilities.




On that note though, I should mention that psychopaths can feel empathy for their mothers, too. You don't seem to be aware of the mental condition's attributes, a lot of psychos are capable of love and feeling pain. Norman Bates from Psycho is probably the best example of that.

This post was edited by slacks420 on Aug 1 2014 11:42pm
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Aug 1 2014 11:49pm
its funny how people perceive an unattached emotionally to others and call them a psycho when they feel no pain of their death.
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