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May 30 2015 08:40am
Just lookin for some advice I guess.

Girl broke up with me yesterday, ofc waited till the day I was working an 11 hour shift to do so. Was miserable stuck at work by myself trying not to break down. It's my longest relationship ever as for I've never really been a relationship person and then was with her for 1.5 years and had engagement plans. Miserably depressed right now.


I guess my biggest problem is this feeling like I can't do any better. I mean I haven't been single since before I turned 21 (currently 22) and I don't really even remember how to "spit game". I ran through sloots my first couple years of college and after meeting her I calmed down so much, I don't even feel like the same person. Seems petty, I know, but I tend to get attached easily.


I know some of you m8s have been through shitty situations with women so curious for advice to help with being depressed and moving on.
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May 30 2015 08:46am
I thought hyphy would never lose his rein as leader of the beta squad but looks like he just got surpassed
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May 30 2015 08:49am
Quote (HotHamAndCarl @ May 30 2015 10:46am)
I thought hyphy would never lose his rein as leader of the beta squad but looks like he just got surpassed


lol hate u
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May 30 2015 09:06am
Got any friends that are the 'lad banter' type? Go out with them whenever you can, get wasted and talk to lots of girls. Trying to get a girlfriend in the next month or two will just be a shitty rebound so banging sluts is better until you feel better, which happens with time
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May 30 2015 10:15am
Quote (Boilermakers @ May 30 2015 08:40am)
Just lookin for some advice I guess.

Girl broke up with me yesterday, ofc waited till the day I was working an 11 hour shift to do so. Was miserable stuck at work by myself trying not to break down. It's my longest relationship ever as for I've never really been a relationship person and then was with her for 1.5 years and had engagement plans. Miserably depressed right now.


I guess my biggest problem is this feeling like I can't do any better. I mean I haven't been single since before I turned 21 (currently 22) and I don't really even remember how to "spit game". I ran through sloots my first couple years of college and after meeting her I calmed down so much, I don't even feel like the same person. Seems petty, I know, but I tend to get attached easily.


I know some of you m8s have been through shitty situations with women so curious for advice to help with being depressed and moving on.


She did you a favor then. If the relationship this young wasn't working out on her end, marriage definitely wouldn't have.

You are still young, you don't need to be looking for a long term relationship. Focus on yourself, career and personal goals, and a relationship will come eventually. Do not try to rush back into a relationship.
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May 30 2015 10:44am
Lol at thinking about engagement after 1.5 years . Try 5+ before even considering it
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May 30 2015 10:51am
Quote (Boilermakers @ May 30 2015 09:40am)
Just lookin for some advice I guess.

Girl broke up with me yesterday, ofc waited till the day I was working an 11 hour shift to do so. Was miserable stuck at work by myself trying not to break down. It's my longest relationship ever as for I've never really been a relationship person and then was with her for 1.5 years and had engagement plans. Miserably depressed right now.


I guess my biggest problem is this feeling like I can't do any better. I mean I haven't been single since before I turned 21 (currently 22) and I don't really even remember how to "spit game". I ran through sloots my first couple years of college and after meeting her I calmed down so much, I don't even feel like the same person. Seems petty, I know, but I tend to get attached easily.


I know some of you m8s have been through shitty situations with women so curious for advice to help with being depressed and moving on.



Don't be depressed, i can't even get a girl lol
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May 30 2015 11:19am
Bro, keep in there, bro.

We've all been there, you're gonna feel like absolute fucking SHIT the next couple of days. Keep your mind busy, your body busy and masturbate to the extreme opposite of your girl on pornsites, bro.

Get it out of your system by any means necessary, don't think back, bro, don't contact her, don't play fucking mindgames and text her all the time.

Over is over, bro. So suck it up for the next couple of days and bounce back hard. Over the back. Of another girl.

Small bro-advice, bro. If you're really the commitment bro, might wanna loose up and go out with a girl just for going out with her without clinging onto it that hard, bro.

Good luck, bro.
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May 30 2015 11:19am
It takes time my friend. Just stay as busy as you can and it won't seem that bad.
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May 30 2015 12:27pm
Just murder her, go to prison, lift weights and get a boyfriend.. thats what my buddy did.
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