Wot to do?

She was 4'11 when we met at maybe 110 pounds. Now she's pushing a buck fiddy or more.

I've tried to get her in the gym but she's lazy as fuck. I know we had a child, but that was 2 years ago.

I'm already less interested in sex not only because her weight but her increasing lack of confidence. We've talked about it before but she hasn't done shit since.

Anyone else experience anything similar? How'd you guys work it out?

I've gained maybe 20 lbs(maybe +10%bf) since we got together (which I've been going to the gym to work it off) so I know I should be looking at myself too.

But the difference is I am making the effort and she isnt.

lmao

I'd say leave her but you already gave her a get free fat card, aka baby

4'11 at 110 is already kinda chubby, shoulda seen this coming

that's a tough one.

I would suggest having a conversation and agree upon "specific" fitness goals rather than just "to loose weight" (ie run the mile in < 7:30 by 6 months or something)

You two need to change your lifestyle a bit, although it is hard when you work & have a kid & don't have much free time.

This obese woman at my work lost 100 lbs on weight watchers. 2 years later she has put all 100 lbs right back on, and now she has this mentality of "I love to eat, so I'm happy this way".

too much sigh in this thread.

This post was edited by PartyInMyPants on Feb 26 2015 10:09pm

Is she like snooki?

as long as shes happy it's all good sahn..thick is the way to go anyway . 4'11'' one fitty, that's like kim k status.

most girls at 150 are overweight, even taller ones (and I'm not talking the 6 footers here lol). 4'11" and 150 is morbidly obese.

I wish I had some sage advise for ya man, but the truth is, she probably won't change until she sees a need to change that is greater than her laziness to stay the course. And she may never find that.

That is a tough spot to be in, imo.

It's a shit position to be in when you start to lose physical attraction for the person you are with, regardless of reason.

Last year me and my GF of 3 years broke up partly because of that. Obviously there was much more at play, but deep down that was one of the big issues her and I had.