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Aug 11 2016 10:59pm
When you expect too much out of situations or people...
Best way to not expect so much? Telling me not to, is an easy answer. Just wanting some tips. Might help not get upset over little shhh anymore. Thanks.
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Aug 11 2016 11:01pm
lower expectations for people
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lower expectations for people


So, just not care as much?
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Aug 11 2016 11:06pm
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So, just not care as much?


Fuck THAT. That's bullshit for losers who don't have the strength to keep fighting even when caring is hard and it sucks and it hurts. It's easy as shit to give up and just become apathetic and not give a fuck. The path that's difficult and demanding and takes courage and strength is to keep fighting and having passion and giving a fuck about the world around you even when the world is trying to beat that give a fuck out of you at every turn.

It's just all about self-care. It's not that you need to stop caring, you just need to treat yourself with the same level of care and respect that you'd treat the rest of your loved ones. That means figuring out when it's time to beat a retreat, when it's time to take a day for yourself, when it's time to sleep in or smoke a joint and play video games or do some crafting or whatever it is that brings you some peace and comfort.
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Fuck THAT. That's bullshit for losers who don't have the strength to keep fighting even when caring is hard and it sucks and it hurts. It's easy as shit to give up and just become apathetic and not give a fuck. The path that's difficult and demanding and takes courage and strength is to keep fighting and having passion and giving a fuck about the world around you even when the world is trying to beat that give a fuck out of you at every turn.

It's just all about self-care. It's not that you need to stop caring, you just need to treat yourself with the same level of care and respect that you'd treat the rest of your loved ones. That means figuring out when it's time to beat a retreat, when it's time to take a day for yourself, when it's time to sleep in or smoke a joint and play video games or do some crafting or whatever it is that brings you some peace and comfort.


very nice post
the content is too high for general chat
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eat a whole box of sugar free jello for like 80 calories max aint even mad just do it shits so raw brah
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also very very good video
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Quote (kissmykeister @ Aug 12 2016 02:59pm)
When you expect too much out of situations or people...
Best way to not expect so much? Telling me not to, is an easy answer. Just wanting some tips. Might help not get upset over little shhh anymore. Thanks.


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If you place trust in people and make yourself vulnerable, it's possible for them to let you down or hurt your feelings. To combat this, you have to set up boundaries with everyone you meet. A boundary is essentially the threshold for how much you're willing to share with a person. If over time you find that you can really trust someone then they deserve less of a boundary. But if you meet someone questionable, don't leave yourself vulnerable so easily.

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