I had a discussion with a friend.

If your girlfriend is unconscious and you wake her up with sex, is it considered rape?

Then we asked the same question to a guy.

Is it rape if your girlfriend wakes you up with a blowjob?

I found that majority of woman tend to feel its rape when she can't give consent.

But majority of guys think it's not rape if she wakes you up with a blowjob.

Why is this and what is your opinion on the matter?

i don't have a gf

Cause dudes wanna get their dick sucked to feel good

and chicks only want to fuck when they want something

if ur a couple I don't think so.
it should be discussed but and if they don't want it then u shouldn't do it if they don't care and u don't then go for it

This post was edited by KiABILLL on Jul 7 2016 05:24am

One thing to keep in mind is that you can always discuss this beforehand.

I know I can do whatever I want with my girlfriend if she's sleeping. There's a chance she'll be pissed that I woke her up, but she definitely won't be pissed because I "raped" her.

In general though, it's all about how the receiver feels. Many women would feel invade, and they want a certain level of control when being fucked. Many men would feel blessed, because anytime is a good time for blowjob in their opinion.

It may seem sexist that most girl would feel raped and most men wouldn't, but it isn't. The only thing that matters is how the individual on the receiving end feels about it.

well said.

if you transition to sex when she is kinda sleepy and she doest say no its ok - if she minds, its oops sorry
if she blowjobs you when you sleep its rapey but who gives a fuck, just say you are not in the mood if you mind
/thread

wat if u haven't smashed that gf yet?

BTW, if anyone gives a fuck of my opinion.

It's because woman are just general dicks, and guys are like hey this feels good.

I for one have fucked every single one of my girlfriends with the intention of them waking up and each time they loved it. But yet, for some reason... The general opinion of all girls is that it's rape. It blew my fucking mind.

That's totally fucking sexist in every sense of the word. And sadly the only reasoning of that is that one goes in a hole, and the other doesn't. The hole decides on whether or not it's rape. And the mouth is the fucking hole, lmao.