If you want different results then you need to take a different approach.
As an example: if you always are meeting people at bars and all they want to do is 'autobang' then perhaps a change of scenery is in order?
Not saying that everyone at bars wants to 'autobang'. My point is that different places seem to attract certain types of people and that things won't change if the cycle just keeps repeating.
Good luck finding what you desire.
