hey dudes, what should i do im in trouble....

i always rejected my girls wish to get an apartment together with her, because i love my own life and i dont want to give it up for her.
the most of my friends who got an apartment with her girls got traped into this and now they arnt rly happy about this situation.

... so she took her first own flat in her home town ~1month ago and its around 30miles away from my home town. i told here far before she took the flat, that i would never live there, because its to far away from the university were i study for the next years and its also to far away from my company. with an own car i would think about it, but i dont own a car, because i rly dont need one as student in the town and its also a bit expensive as student.

yesterday she told me that shes so unhappy, that she cant wake up every morning with me and she would like to live with me together.... i thought "wow, wtf is going on... you got your own flat now for some weeks and force this fucking discussion again?!"
so i tried to tell her, that i cant leave the town, because it dosnt make sense for me, its to far away from the university and my company. she got rly angy and said to me, that all her befriended couples get further with thier relationship but we stuck in a point for years and if i would rly love her, i would live together with her in her new flat....

what to do now? guys... every normal human would understand, that its totaly brainless to get out of the city, when you study there for the next years and got your job ~3miles away from your flat.

some ideas, how to get out of this trouble and maybe some tips what i should tell her....?

Good luck. friend.

How long have you been dating her? How serious are you?

Sooner or later, you will have to move in with your girlfriend if this relationship is supposed to last more than just a couple of years. You're aware of that, right?

uff, we are now since 4 and a half year in a relationship... i know that i have to give up my lifestyle someday, but imo the time isnt came for this already.
shes only 22 and im 25 years old, it isnt the time to get childrens and break up the partylife with my friends for her.

at the moment my education is the most important part for me and my future life and after that, i could think about a house / flat on the countryside.
but for the moment theres not a single argument to get there, just the nearness to her would be a positive effect, but i dont need this... shes the one who wants to live with me together... so why the hell should i move away to her?

get a 2 bed room?

i think you should mostly just focus on what you need to do to make your life good first before starting to settle down with your girlfriend!

Tldr but dont do it

thats what i swore myself years go... i wont break up my life for a girl, cause in the current world 95% or more couples wont be together for their whole life. i mean some years ago it was necessary to get a wife for your whole life and get childrens that work on your farm and so on... but we life in the year 2016 and we dont have to rush our life that fast, we can think about getting childrens with 35years and we need more and more time to get ready for the work life. (if we dont learn to be a baker or hair stylist)

i think you're right about that!

if you both have your lives set up nicely and you can afford to both get a new place if things don't work out then that's one thing but don't become dependent on the other person!

if you both do good things with your lives then in the long run it will work out better for you both!