But...logic though..

If you're a white person and you've never said the n word, you're a liar.

I don't find black girls attractive at all. The color differences between different areas of their skin even on their hands or whatnot just gets to me. Same with white girls that have lots of freckles/birthmarks.



Then again once I actually get to know them I stop seeing that stuff. I just realized last night one of my best friends wears glasses, so that might give you an idea of how I view people I actually get to know aesthetically. Also, he's like the fourth person I didn't realize wore glasses for the first several years of knowing them.

How do you not notice something you should be looking directly at when speaking to that person?

He avoids eye contact confirmed

It's not relevant to what they are saying. I choose my friends based on if they can keep my attention (actually have something intelligent to talk about) so I'm usually wrapped up in the conversation and not focused on appearances.

Do you have a hard time meeting a person's gaze?

Not at all. I don't avoid looking at people's faces.

Then you're just inattentive?

I already told you what it is. I don't focus on aesthetic details. I'm what you call a good listener, sometimes at the expense of other things.