Quote (ChrisKz @ Jul 26 2016 12:01pm)
When it comes to drugs know that the person who kills themselves through stupid mistakes and drugs are always the perpetrator. It wasn't the other persons fault, he was there doing the same stupid things the other person did and probably didn't have much better judgement at the time.
What you could do is one of three things. Apologize and say you said that out of lashing out because of grief. Second, apologize and saying you understand why he might've been unable to help your other frien dat the time, understand his perspective, play to your empathy.
Third, tell him you understand his perspective and have some empathy, explain why you did what you did but do not apologize. This is the prideful route though.
Help him, he is grieving too I bet.
Yeah, I know he killed himself now. It's been a week and 2 days so far, so I've had a lot of time to ponder this. But I can't come to understand the situation and don't like talking about it with people who knew him.
I've taken the 3rd route before this post, but I hide a lot of resentment towards him still and I want to free myself from that. But I know he didn't want to die, we had so many discussions on death and what it means. And our depression, etc. Just blows my mind he went through with it.
Quote (ChrisKz @ Jul 26 2016 01:44pm)
I'm not really sure why you ignored what I said. I think of you as an online friend yet you didn't even address my opinion =/.
Sorry, just read it and went on working out.