It is my friend.



I may want a different sister, but she is still my sister.

Furthermore I could never allow you to do this. I know you have good intent in wanting to cheer my up, however I could never allow any physical or mental, or vocal harm to occur to any member of my family.

Thank you for offering this, however I decline.

Thank you for giving me advice voyaging.


I really appreciate your kind input, and yes I know there are. I was wondering if anyone on this forum is going through this as well and can relate. I was hoping to find someone on here.


They are very brave, absolutely tremendously brave to be able to endure this kind of mental hardship. If I weren't bullied my whole life I honestly think I could possibly endure this, however being bullied my whole life and now my nephew is also getting bullied. All of this is just too much to bare on my well being.

I really want to see if someone else here can relate with me. I appreciate yours and everyone else who has given advice. However I hope I can find someone else here who is going through the same situation. I need to urgently speak to someone like this.

you need to change how you operate your life

if you are truly unhappy with with is surrounding you then only you have the power to change it

and feeling hopeless and sorry for yourself is what separates the weak from the strong

everyone feels hopeless and sorry for themselves at some point but the strong are the ones who recognize this and change it

Gonna let u in on a little secret jon...you got worms dude

You shouldn't have made fun of him. Taunting and bullying is very wrong. I hope that he still isn't going through the mental torture all these years later.

Your bullying could have affected him. It sure has affected me.... I am stronger because of it however I can only take so much. This type of situation is like a breaking point for me.

And it is good that you feel bad and you feel sorry for what you did. You sir have changed for the greater good. So for that I commend you.

My dad had prostate cancer and after his surgery is somewhat incontinent and has to wear Depends. He seems to have gotten used to it mostly. It still bothers him sometimes but it seems like something you just need to get used to. It hasn't affected his life too significantly and nobody really knows that he wears them unless he tells them.

I dunno how much different it is for someone with IBS (i.e. fecal incontinence instead of urine) so I can't really give too much advice, but I hope this helps and I'm confident you'll learn to live with it. It's certainly not the worst thing in the world

And of course listen to your doctor's advice and research IBS and do what you can to minimize your reliance on diapers

I am sorry to hear that your father had to go through all of that. I truly hope he is alright now, he is very strong to be able to endured what he did. God bless him.

And yes it has helped me some what, any advice posted helps me. I will do my best to try and overcome the odds and take this on full force.

And yes it isn't the worst thing, I try and tell my that sometimes. There are folks in wheel chairs and missing legs. Those folks are very tough mentally and I commend them all for their bravery to endure that life style.

With all of that said, thank you voyaging. You are a really good person and your advice has truly helped.

I am going to be logging off soon, I will be back. Everyone who has any positive input, please do post your advice.

Do not bother posting here however if you are going to just troll me by posting nonsense.

Thank you to anyone who leaves great helpful posts.

God bless

tell her i said piss off

hes not a baby pussy... he cant control his shit box

you sound like a baby pussy