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Jun 25 2016 03:32am
Quote (AiNedeSpelCzech @ Jun 25 2016 04:22am)
Honestly, it's way more common than you think and I'm pretty sure that you do it because you're a really thoughtful dude who's smarter than he looks and who really cares about his friends and doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings, even though of course sometimes you do hurt people's feelings because you're a human being and we all do.

Just remember that inaction is an action too!


i see that! i just want to get better at keeping in touch with my friends and family (which is really hard to do working nights every night but one night off per week)

thank you for the part i bolded the most cuz that's what i really need to work on! :)

from now on i will try to do a better job at keeping up with my text messages and reply back when i get one! ^_^



Quote (Devil_kin @ Jun 25 2016 04:23am)
do you consider yourself to be socially anxious?


maybe but it's more like i get nervous with 1 on 1 but i'm better in groups of 2 or more! :)
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Jun 25 2016 03:35am
I honestly have the same problem but like a hundred times worse, imo, coz I'm also a huge dick compared to you. :P My last girlfriend ended up totally flipping out on me for that exact reason, actually - I wouldn't reply to texts or facebook messages or whatever else fast enough. Well, plus the only times we saw each other were in hotel rooms where I would usually bang her silly and then immediately pass out coz I was so tired from the rest of my life, lol.
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Jun 25 2016 03:43am
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I honestly have the same problem but like a hundred times worse, imo, coz I'm also a huge dick compared to you. :P My last girlfriend ended up totally flipping out on me for that exact reason, actually - I wouldn't reply to texts or facebook messages or whatever else fast enough. Well, plus the only times we saw each other were in hotel rooms where I would usually bang her silly and then immediately pass out coz I was so tired from the rest of my life, lol.


see that's the thing with me! i always see my first text of the day when i wake up at 1pm and i have to get ready for work! :lol:

i'm still waking up and have to take a shower and other stuff.. next thing i know i'm rushing out the door to go to work! :ph34r:

so i don't want to text her when i get the message cuz i don't have enough time to sit and text back and forth before work! :(
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Jun 25 2016 03:47am
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see that's the thing with me! i always see my first text of the day when i wake up at 1pm and i have to get ready for work! :lol:

i'm still waking up and have to take a shower and other stuff.. next thing i know i'm rushing out the door to go to work! :ph34r:

so i don't want to text her when i get the message cuz i don't have enough time to sit and text back and forth before work! :(


lol, I totally know that feel so bad. And then when you finally have time AND remember, it's like two days later and you just feel awkward, so you don't send anything, which just makes it MORE AWKWARD.

Just address it very light-heartedly and sincerely when you're hanging out in person at some point. "Hey, btw, sorry I'm so bad about replying to texts, but I definitely think about you way more often than I text you back, hahaha anyway let's eat ice cream" or whatever.
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Jun 25 2016 03:59am
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lol, I totally know that feel so bad. And then when you finally have time AND remember, it's like two days later and you just feel awkward, so you don't send anything, which just makes it MORE AWKWARD.

Just address it very light-heartedly and sincerely when you're hanging out in person at some point. "Hey, btw, sorry I'm so bad about replying to texts, but I definitely think about you way more often than I text you back, hahaha anyway let's eat ice cream" or whatever.


exactly! :lol:

2 days turns into 2 weeks lol and it just gets more awkward the longer you wait to text back! :blush:

i haven't seen my friend in person in over 5 years but we've both moved from the same part of California to very close here in Texas but we both have totally different lives and rarely get to communicate with each other! :(

it's mostly my fault though cuz i am bad at texting people back! :blush:
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Jun 25 2016 04:46am
Quote (wraps @ Jun 24 2016 09:00am)
i almost made a thread about having problems with responding to a text message haha but then when i tried to make the tread, i didn't know what to post! :blush:

alright my friend sent me a video of her singing and i haven't sent a reply back! :(

i love the video she sent me but i feel bad for not responding back in so long and now i don't know what to say! :blush:

i started out like..

i really liked your video and i listen to it a lot! :)

i'm sorry i didn't respond back for so long but i've been working all the time! :(

(i just felt like that sounded like excuses so i didn't send it!)

the second one was like..

thank you for sending me your video! i really loved it and watch it all the time! i'm sorry i didn't respond to your text for so long but i've been busy at work! :blush:

i think this sounds to creepy! :ph34r:

that whole thing was awkward as heck! :lol:


Just send Sher a video of you singing.

Or send her some duck pics.
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Jun 25 2016 04:48am
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