imo it depends on the people involved and the circumstances. I have had it go either way in past experiences.
I find it mostly depends on the people involved, and what they believe in. And as long as you are honest about these things from the start, hopefully you won't be hurting anybody's feelings.
It's when people say one thing and do another that leads to murdersuicide (for this reason I surely hope your gf is faithful to you bako because around here it generally seems like you could snap at any second)
but leaving personal feelings and off-topic posts aside,
