Quote (howtodisappearcompletely @ Jul 7 2016 04:33am)
How is anyone being sexist when they decide personally whether they experience something as rape or not?
When person X says he/she experiences it as rape, they're not saying it is that way for everyone in their gender.
There's nothing sexist about personal experiences.
You're absolutely right, I'm a tad drunk right now so what I say may not make sense.
But a woman will bring up rape on the behalf of a RELATIONSHIP far more than a male would. In that essence, I view it sexism.
Let's look at the definition of sexism to perhaps make you understand better.
prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women( shit you not it says this), on the basis of sex.
It fits the bill, rape is catered to women. They feel obliged to call out rape anytime a sexual favor is not in their advantage, and I mean this only in this circumstance. I see no problem with having sex WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND, who would otherwise not oblige if she were not sleep. If she tells you to stop, you stop. If she doesn't say anything, it doesn't mean it's rape. It just means it's a surprise, lmao.